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What does it really mean to be a man? Listen to Sick and Tired Recovery Podcast: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sick-tired-recovery-finding-freedom-in-gods-word/id1474908564 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07MSd73svpxj5yw3VrN7ws Work with Coach Vernon → https://www.sickandtiredrecovery.com/contact/ Too often, men struggle silently with self-image, shame, and the pressure to live up to society’s definition of masculinity. In this episode of…

The disease of addiction had me chasing control. Recovery showed me the truth: I’m powerless over God’s plan—and that’s where real freedom lives. 🙏 #LetGoAndLetGod #RecoveryJourney #GodsWill

"People can debate religion all day, but they can’t take away what I lived through. I had my Paul experience, and it made my relationship with God real. #GodIsReal #PaulExperience #Testimony

Ash shouldn’t be here today… but his story will change how you see life. ✨ Listen to Sick and Tired Recovery Podcast 👇🏿 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/07MSd73svpxj5yw3VrN7ws Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sick-tired-recovery/id1474908564 Work with Coach Vernon → https://www.sickandtiredrecovery.com/contact/ If you’re sick and tired of feeling stuck, battling addiction, or living below your potential, this episode…

3 weeks in… 11 pounds gone 🔥 From 307 ➝ 296. No magic. No secrets. Just Eat Less. Move More. 💪🏿 #WeightLossJourney #EatLessMoveMore

When a person brushes against death, suddenly the smallest details—a sunrise, laughter with friends, or even a quiet moment of peace—carry enormous weight. The awareness that life can end at any moment transforms the ordinary into something extraordinary.

In this video, Hilary - once a child star - shares the raw truth about growing up in the spotlight, the hidden battles with drinking and addiction, and the fight it took to reclaim her life. From the highs of early success to the lows of rock bottom, Hilary’s story…

When a man has been raised under overprotection, he may equate love with being cared for, guided, or even controlled. Instead of viewing a partner as an equal, he may look for the same emotional safety net his mother provided. This can result in seeking out a woman who nurtures…

Embracing your dark side is not about giving in to anger, envy, or fear; it’s about acknowledging the parts of yourself that society tells you to suppress, and learning to channel that energy into empowerment. This is the path of the true warrior. #warriorwithin #peaceofmind #trueempowerment

When we talk about addiction, people often assume drugs and alcohol are used to chase a high, to feel good, or to escape into euphoria. But the truth is more complicated. Many people don’t drink or use substances to feel better—they use them to stop feeling altogether. Others aren’t chasing…

So many of us spend our lives chasing empowerment as if it’s something hidden out in the world, waiting to be discovered. We look for it in books, in people, in titles, in accomplishments, or even in substances and temporary highs. We think if we can just achieve that one…

Weight loss is rarely a straight path. In my Eat Less, Move More journey, I’ve learned that setbacks are not failures—they are part of the process. Resilience is what allows me to keep moving forward, even when progress feels slow, when cravings win, or when I miss a workout. Resilience…

The greatest tragedy in life is not failure but abandoning who we truly are. From childhood, many of us learn to build masks — ways of being that please others, protect us from pain, or help us survive the chaos of our environments. Over time, these masks grow thicker until…

Getting sober is only the beginning. The real transformation starts when you go beyond the meetings, beyond the 12 steps, and start doing the deep inner work — healing your mind, your spirit, and your identity. This is the part of recovery most people don’t talk about, but it’s where…

Follow along as I share my real, unfiltered journey — from stepping on the scale feeling defeated to embracing the mantra: “Eat Less, Move More.” Every weigh-in, every workout, every moment of doubt, and every breakthrough is documented to inspire and show that with consistency and faith, anything is possible.…

Forgiveness isn’t about letting them off the hook — it’s about setting yourself free. Many of us carry childhood pain, anger, or resentment toward our parents. But holding on to that pain only keeps us stuck. Forgiving your parents isn’t about forgetting or excusing what happened — it’s about reclaiming…

I didn’t learn how to be a real man from the streets or from trying to look tough. I learned it in the recovery rooms, building relationships with healthy men who showed me what real strength looks like — accountability, honesty, and showing up even when it’s hard. A real…

In this powerful episode of the Sick & Tired Recovery Podcast, I sit down with Barb, a boundaries coach, speaker, author, and podcaster, to share her incredible journey of healing. Barb opens up about how, for most of her life, she didn’t understand what boundaries were. She thought love meant…

Many people struggle with recognizing when God is speaking because His ways are often subtle and unlike the loud, dramatic voices we imagine. Learning to discern God’s voice requires patience, practice, and spiritual sensitivity. #heargodsvoice #divineguidance #higherconsciousness

Childhood trauma—whether it comes from abuse, neglect, abandonment, or growing up in a chaotic home—can shape the way a person views themselves and the world. When these painful experiences go unprocessed, they often leave deep emotional wounds, unresolved shame, and a constant sense of not feeling safe or “good enough.”…

Masculinity is often tied to physical attributes. Among these, the size of a man’s genitalia is commonly — and unfairly — portrayed as a measure of virility, confidence, and sexual prowess. For Black men, this stereotype carries additional layers of complexity, rooted in both historical objectification and contemporary cultural narratives.…

When I first came into recovery, I thought Step Four—“Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves”—was just about listing my wrongs, my character defects, and all the ways I had messed up my life. I thought it was about shame, about confessing to how broken I was. But…

You don’t need a church pew, a priest, or a sacred building to encounter God. If God is truly infinite, then He is everywhere—within you, around you, and in the very air you breathe. Leaving religion often comes with fear. We are told that without it, we will be lost,…

Boundaries are a declaration of self-worth—a way of saying, “This is what I need to protect my peace, my health, and my recovery.” Yet, after drawing that line, it’s common to be met with an unexpected wave of guilt and shame. Why does this happen? Much of it comes from…