For a long time, I judged myself by the damage I’d done. My relationship with my Higher Power helped me see that I could take responsibility for that damage and still believe I was worth saving. #AddictionRecovery #HigherPower #SickAndTiredRecovery
What do you do when motivation wears off? Discipline means following through on a commitment even when you don’t feel like it. Start with one small action you can repeat. Every promise you keep gives you another reason to trust yourself. #DisciplineOverMotivation #SelfTrust #PersonalGrowth
What does it mean to be spiritually dead when you first get to recovery? For me, it meant I’d gotten so used to getting through the day that I barely noticed what was going on inside me. Let me share how I started to change after I got clean and…
Who was I without the drugs? When I first entered recovery, I couldn’t answer that question. Staying clean opened the door to learning about myself—my beliefs, my values, and the life I wanted to live. #Recovery #SelfDiscovery #SickAndTiredRecovery
What are you really running from? In this conversation on the Sick and Tired Recovery Podcast, I sit down with my guest who works with emotional and energy healing. We talked about why recovery starts on the inside, and why looking outside yourself for happiness or love never feels like…
Who remembers penny night, damage night, and THEN trick-or-treat? Growing up, Halloween was more than one night in my neighborhood. 😂 I’m sharing a little of what I remember. Did your neighborhood have the same traditions? Share your story in the comments! #Halloween #HalloweenMemories #TrickOrTreat #Shorts
I don’t remember everything people said to me when I first got clean. But I remember that hug. Another addict reached out, and I felt my Higher Power telling me to allow these people to help me. I’m sharing this for whoever is watching recovery videos while quietly struggling with…
Your body feels stress, too. Muscle tension, headaches, and trouble sleeping can sometimes be affected by what you’re dealing with emotionally. Learning to recognize your feelings and respond to stress differently may help ease some of that discomfort. Emotional work belongs alongside caring for your physical health. It doesn’t mean…
This conversation explores recovery as more than substances or illness—it is also about the beliefs, excuses, and internal narratives that keep people stuck. Zuma shares how discipline, self-talk, faith, and self-care helped her quit smoking, return to school later in life, and navigate a breast cancer diagnosis. We also discuss…
When you’re facing something hard, it can take up so much of your life that you forget there’s more to you. You’re still a person with dreams, people you love, and things that matter to you. You don’t have to feel strong every day for that to be true. Zulma…
Being able to take a joke doesn’t mean you have to take every joke. If you’re always the butt of the joke, you’re allowed to say, “That’s enough.” Sometimes we laugh along to avoid being called sensitive—even when the comments hurt. Practice speaking up before frustration builds. You can enjoy…
Self-love shows up in your daily choices: getting rest, setting healthy boundaries, and following through on your needs. You deserve the same care you give others. Choose one action today that shows you matter—and do it. #SelfLove #SelfCare #SelfWorth
When nothing exciting is happening, can you still be okay with yourself? Sometimes the hardest part is what comes after the excitement—the quiet, the boredom, or the feelings that a distraction helped you avoid. That’s where building a loving relationship with yourself becomes practice. Can you feel restless without immediately…
What if self-medicating is a symptom of something deeper? In this conversation, my guest Marie talks about what can be underneath the need to numb out or feel in control. We explore why change begins when we get honest about what’s hurting and start rebuilding trust in ourselves, self-love, and…
Sometimes people ask for help because they want relief from the pain—not because they’re ready to act on a solution. Being heard may help them feel better temporarily, but lasting change requires more than another conversation. It requires a willingness to take responsibility for the next step. You can listen,…
Sometimes we ignore red flags because the person is giving us something we’re afraid to lose: attention, security, companionship, or hope. The question isn’t just “Why did I stay?” It’s “What need was I afraid wouldn’t be met if I left?” Be honest with yourself without beating yourself up. That’s…
What I wish I knew earlier in life is that I didn’t have to be religious to have a personal relationship with God. I thought I had to get my life together before I could come to Him. But I didn’t meet God in church. I met Him in the…
What if the pause you need is already inside you? A slow, intentional breath can calm your body, interrupt an emotional reaction, and create enough space for you to choose your response. It won’t change the past or remove every uncomfortable feeling. But it can bring you back to the…
Too many young people suffer in silence because they’ve been taught that asking for help makes them look weak. But pretending you’re okay while you’re falling apart inside isn’t strength. Real strength is being honest about what hurts and having the courage to reach out. We have to teach our…
You don’t have to chase recovery like you chased drugs. Chasing keeps you looking outside yourself for the answer. Recovery asks you to go within, face what has been buried and uncover the person who was there all along. You don’t catch recovery. You become more honest, aware and whole…
Robbie and Mia met in recovery, but their story goes far beyond getting clean. In this conversation, they open up about addiction, identity, healing, marriage, and the journey that eventually brought their lives together. They share how their individual paths of recovery prepared them for one another—and how what they…
Recovery taught me that healing doesn’t happen in isolation. When I began connecting with other people, I found people who had been through some of the same things I had—and found a healthier way forward. That gave me something I desperately needed: hope. Recovery isn’t just about stopping. It’s about…
We talk a lot about finding the right person. Maybe we don’t talk enough about becoming the person capable of building the relationship we say we want. That’s where the work gets uncomfortable. Because eventually I have to stop looking across the table and look in the mirror. Who am…
It’s easy to see what’s wrong with everybody else. It takes courage to look at yourself. Sometimes blaming, controlling, or manipulating other people becomes a way of keeping the attention off what’s happening inside of us. Matthew 7:3–5 talks about noticing the speck in someone else’s eye while ignoring the…